I said there is nothing better than Goûter in the Trunk, but then I thought about the Camion Pizza. The original Food Truck.
Back in January I applied for a Program Dean position at Oxbridge Academy in Montpellier. I wrote about it in a post:
Then in March I got an interview, and was so nervous about it I could hardly stand it! Since then I have been waiting, waiting, waiting. Two days ago I was contacted for a second interview. That will happen via Skype on Friday (in two days!). Well I’ve said it once, and I’ll say it again, “Whatever will be, will be.” I feel pretty good about the possibility of it though! It can’t look half bad on a resumé to have worked for this organization, and I’m truly hoping to get the job to see what kind of opportunities it could offer me. All of this change is so very exciting. I know that there are people who don’t like change, and I understand that. I don’t know how I turned out this way, but I thrive on this kind of challenge. What an adventure!!
Limoux: Carnaval de Limoux
Approximately ten weeks of festival, this is one of the longest running carnivals in the world. Masks, costumes, music, pranks, King Carnival burned at the stake, swapping of roles, and it’s all done in the Occitan language.
Nîmes: Féria de Primavera
This is the pre-Lenten carnaval , and the first of several annual féria in Nîmes.
Sommiers: Medieval festival
Street festival featuring costumed merchants and performers, markets and music.
Annual festival, artisan craft market, medieval period-costume parade.
Nîmes: Feria de Pentecôte
The main focus is bullfighting in the Roman amphitheater.
Saintes-Maries-de-la-Mer: Gypsy Festival & Pilgrimage
Traditional gypsy music, traditional gypsy costumes, white horses of the Camargue, solemn procession of over 3,000, headed by the king of the Gypsies and the archbishop, weaves its way through the village streets, singing a repetitive chant until everyone reaches the sea. Bullfighting, concerts, lots of food.
Beaucaire: La Fête du Drac
Traditional festival in honor of the town’s dragon mascot.
Pavalas: The Maguelone Music Festival
The cathedral is home to a festival of ancient music.
Montpellier: Le Printemps des Comédiens
Theater and live performances, proposing between 20 and 25 shows and drawing more than 40,000 paying spectators.
Narbonne: Festival National de Théâtre Amateur
Ten evenings of open air amateur theater.
Sète: Fête de la Saint-Pierre
The town pays homage to St. Pierre, patron saint of fishermen.
Montpellier: Festival de Radio-France
Music festival focusing on opera, classical music, and jazz. 90% of the concerts are free.
Beaucaire: Medieval Fair
A week-long recreation of the medieval market and other celebrations.
Avignon: Festival d’Avignon
Theater festival that runs for three weeks.
Carcassonne: Dance, music, and theater festival
Opera, Dance, Theatre, Classical Music, French and international popular music, Modern music. Many concerts are free.
Saint-Guilhem-le-Désert: Annual fête
Baroque organ and choral music is held in a medieval monastery.
Sète: Water jousting
Originating in Sete centuries ago, this sport is now a passionate fixture of Languedoc traditional culture. The most important tournaments take place on August 25, la Fête de Saint Louis.
Orb Valley: Festival de la Vallée de l’Orb
Takes place in various town squares throughout the Orb valley, this festival features lots of wine and folk music activities.
Béziers: La Féria
Five day féria focusing on bullfights, concerts, food. Attracts over a million visitors annually.
Narbonne: Semaine Bavaroise
In alternating years, Narbonne honors twin town, Weilheim in Germany, by a week of celebrations of Bavarian food and folklore.
Pavalas: Féria d’Automne
Nîmes: Féria des Vendanges
Basically a repeat of the Féria de Pentecôte that takes place in May.
Le Grau/Port Camargue:
Traditional water tournaments and bull fights.
Aigues Mortes: Annual fête
Béziers: Les Primeurs d’Oc
Premier wine festival in Languedoc. Features wine, music, dance, and theater.
Pezenas: Occitan Christmas
Montpellier Christmas Market
Béziers Christmas Market
Perpignan Christmas Market
Carcassonne: Marché au Gras
Christmas market with lots of artisanal crafts and regional food products (and FOIE GRAS!!!)
I highly doubt that I’ll make it to all of these festivals and events, but they do look like fun. I think I’ll opt most likely for the various markets, medieval festivals, Christmas festivities, and wine festivals.
What have I missed? If you know of other worthwhile festivals/markets/events going on annually in the Languedoc, please tell me about them in the comments. Maybe there’s a festival that you think is great somewhere else in France? If so, I’d sure love to hear about it.
After seven months of pursuing our dream of selling our house then moving to France, today it has officially happened. We closed on the sale of our house in St. Louis! Neither of us was quite ready to believe it until all of the closing papers had been signed. Until the last minute, we were living in doubt. Since putting our house on the market back in March, 2012, we have had six different contracts fall through for one reason or another. We really wanted to move to France this past summer, and it was a harsh reality to accept that it just wasn’t going to happen, not exactly the way we wanted it to. Looking at the big picture, we can both see that leaving next summer will be much more practical on many levels.
We will be staying on in St. Louis until mid-June 2013 due to the nature of our jobs (we are teachers), and also to avoid interrupting the school year for our children (ages 5 and 8). This wait will also give us the opportunity to save more money, as we will now be paying to rent an apartment rather than paying a home mortgage! In addition, we won’t feel rushed and unsure about everything as we did last spring. Not knowing if we were going to move put us in a position where we couldn’t really talk to many people about our grand adventure. This time, we will be able to share our dream coming true with friends, family, colleagues. There will not have to be any secrecy about it now. In the spring, when we were hoping to sell our house quickly, we still knew that there was a huge amount of uncertainty involving our move. We couldn’t inform our employers of our move, just in case things didn’t work out. We knew that if the house didn’t sell, we would need to have our jobs in the fall. That was good thinking on our part, even if it was very difficult to stay quiet about it all.
Our first step now will be to find an apartment to live in for the next seven months, and it shouldn’t be hard to find one right in our neighborhood. The next step will be to eventually inform our employers that we will not be returning in the fall. I think that can wait a few months, still giving them time to find our replacements. Beyond that, there’s everything we need to get done logistically speaking for the big plunge: French nationality for me, and American nationality for my husband being the two main tasks at hand.
As the months go on, we will plan out (as best we know how) our first year of living in the south of France. We need to find jobs, some reliable source of income to support our family. I feel very optimistic about this as we are two very marketable professionals with many talents, and we have some pretty good ideas already. My husband is a little less optimistic, but I think that’s just a result of (1) being a husband and father, and (2) being French!
It does help to know that we are moving to a very familiar place where we have family, and we have also already spent a year living there (14 years ago). We have also spent the last 14 years spending the whole summer over there, so we feel comfortable. The kids and I already speak fluent French, which I’ve read all over the Internet as being one of the main obstacles of other American families who have the same dream of living in France. Here in the US, I’d say we already live as much of a “French lifestyle” as possible. It’s just the way we are. The way we live daily and the way we raise our children corresponds much more to a French norm than to the American way.
Over the next seven months, I’ll do my best to record the steps we will take to get prepared. Hopefully this blog will serve to help others in the same boat (we can’t be the only ones doing this, right?). So now, let the fun begin! Thanks for reading, and I’d love any comments or questions that my readers may have.
It’s kind of hard to believe that this is really going to happen for us. All of last year we were getting our house on the market, thinking all the while that we would be moving to France during the summer (after the successful sale of our home, of course!). By now we would have been settled down in the South of France, children would be learning lessons in a French school. Things sure don’t work out the way we sometimes imagine, do they?
After the heartache of six failed contracts on our home, we now have a rather official looking “sold” sign in the front yard. The closing won’t be until next week on the 19th, but at this point there’s really no turning back for either parties. This is going to happen, and we need to find an apartment to live in for six months. We have negotiated staying in the house until the end of November, giving us time to pack and find a place to live.
Everything now seems so official, and we both hope that we’re making the right decision. It’s going to be very hard to leave the house where our children have grown and continue to grow up. We have many, many memories after ten years in our little nest. The truth is, we really love our house, our home. I hope I won’t be too emotional on moving day. After ten months of really being proactive about moving to France, now it seems rather surreal to me.
In many ways I consider us fortunate to not have sold our house in a rush during the summer. Selling it now will give us the proper opportunity to enjoy our last 6-7 months here and to live through the different emotional stages of such a transition. It will also give us a chance to save some money, and I’m sure we will be very glad we did!
Contract #4, Let’s do this already!
My last post started out, “Moving to France in 24 days, and long-stay visa”. That was on May 14, and two contracts ago. The funny thing is that there are a lot of people interested in our house, but for reasons way out of our control (nothing to do with us or our home), the sale just keeps falling through for one reason or another. We are now (or most likely will be tomorrow) on contract #4. I think it’s a good sign that the people who want to buy our house are French. They need a car too, so we’re going to throw in the Beetle for good measure (I needed to sell it anyway). Everyone who has been crossing fingers and toes for me, please don’t stop now! This is it; I can feel that this is going to happen now.
In seven days I’ll be leaving on a trip to Europe with my students. I’m leaving François at home with the kids, and he still has to work until June 15. It wouldn’t be very nice of me to leave him with two kids to care for and a whole house to pack, so that’s what I’m going to start working on tomorrow. I guess we will go ahead and reserve the container, get everything ready to load into it, and if it doesn’t work out…. Well if it doesn’t work out then I just have no idea what to think about what the next step should be.
I did get to Chicago last week for my long-stay visa. I was so nervous leaving my passport at the French consulate, knowing that I need it for my trip next week. They pretty much assured me that I’d have it back in time. I sure hope so! Say what you like about French bureaucracy, but I had a great experience once I actually found someone willing to answer my emails. In the course of one day, about ten emails were sent between us. She helped me locate the documents I needed and assured me that when I came to my meeting in Chicago everything would be fine. Guess what? My meeting was scheduled for 10:20. They called my name at 10:10 because I got there a bit early. By 10:14, we’d completely finished and I was out the door.
Now I have to psyche myself into believing that we’re really moving, and that this time next week I’ll be on a flight to France with my students, and I won’t be coming back (not to live here, anyway).
Checklist for the next week
1. Reserve 20-foot container for a date in late June.
2. Pack up everything François and the kids won’t need over the next few weeks and get it ready to ship.
3. Empty my classroom and desk at work.
4. Put finishing details on student tour of Europe.
5. Inform my friends and family that this is really happening and somehow manage to say good-bye (???)
6. Organize a big, huge play date in the park with kids and their friends who they may never see again… That’s going to be rough. BBQ maybe?
7. Quit my job…. No, I’d better wait till after closing to do that one.
8. Get banking in order….401K thing may need to get done after we’ve moved.
9. Purchase one-way flights for François and the kids…. at the last minute just to be sure.
10. Stay calm, cool and collected (this may be the hardest part).
My experience leading student tours to Europe
One month prior to departure with my students (about twenty of them this year), I’m beginning to think about everything that goes into putting together a student trip to Europe. The 2012 trip will be the fourteenth tour that I’ve organized, and the twelfth I’ve led. Thinking of the many years spent doing this, I decided to do a little calculating just to see how many teenagers I’ve accompanied on trips that last anywhere from 16-29 days: about 300.
Where I’ve traveled with students
I’ve accompanied students to many countries in Western Europe: France, England, Spain, Holland, Luxembourg, Germany, Belgium, Switzerland, Austria, Italy. After this summer I’ll be able to add Czech Republic. These trips are sometimes a bit of a whirlwind, but we have such a good time. I really love my students, and they (usually) don’t give me any trouble. They’re all 17-18 years old at the time of the trip, so I’m free to give them a little liberty. They’re also all boys, which in many ways is easier than a bunch of teenage girls!
How do I organize the tour?
I always get started organizing the trip about a year and a half in advance. It may seem extreme, but a lot goes into planning such an excursion, and it does take time. It’s also nice to give the students enough time to take on a summer job, or to ask for monetary gifts from family members for birthdays and Christmas. I believe that opening the tour for enrollment so far in advance allows for more students to sign up in the long run.
The first thing I do is brainstorm about the places I’d like to visit. It’s simple enough to eliminate cities or regions once you pull out a map and have a look at the logistics of it all. Once I come up with a rough plan of where I want to go and what I want to do there, it’s time to have a look at the price. At that point in the game, it’s more than likely time to rework a few things to bring down the cost. Once I reach a price that seems reasonable (though it’s always expensive), I publish the tour and start getting students to sign up. The more the merrier, and the more students we have, the less expensive it is too.
Though I am a French teacher, and most of the kids who come with me are my own students, usually about a third of them are not. These other students may be students of Spanish, Chinese, Russian, Latin or Greek. I like to keep my tour open to any student who wants to come (after his junior year). However, I have to be careful about accepting student I don’t know, and who don’t know me. To help me make an informed decision about allowing to the student to participate, I ask him to provide two faculty recommendations. That usually helps a lot.
Why do I travel to Europe with students?
Parents, other teachers, friends, and even students ask me why I do this. Why would I take out 2-4 weeks of my precious summer vacation to bring a bunch of kids over to Europe? It’s not because I want a free vacation, because it’s much more intense than the school year (think 24/7, 7 days a week).
It’s because there’s nothing like experiencing Europe for the very first time. Unfortunately, you never get to go again for the first time… Unless you relive the experience through the eyes of your students.
I do send the students back to the US with the other chaperone (usually another teacher). Doing so permits me to spend my remaining two months of vacation in France with my family, who meet up with me in Paris once my students have left.
Any questions or comments?
Please do ask any questions or write any comments that come to mind. Especially when I first started organizing these trips, I really found it helpful to toss around ideas with others who had had the experience.
You do tend to come across a lot of negative comments about traveling with students when searching on the Internet. A lot of it probably does have to do with what kind of students you’re going to be dealing with, but I’d say that the majority of the time it has to do with one’s own attitude and organizational skills.
Pour mes amis francophones:
En ce moment j’essaie de prendre une décision importante. Le moment du départ arrivant, je ne sais pas si on doit acheter des billets aller-simple ou des billets aller-retour (deux fois le prix). Si on achète l’ aller-simple (très tentant), on risque de ne pas vendre la maison avant de partir et on sera bien embêtés du coup!! Et bien sûr, dès que j’achète l’aller-retour, la maison se vendra sans doute et on aura perdu des milliers de dollars pour rien. Mais il faut positiver, n’est-ce pas?? Je crois qu’on attendra encore quelques semaines avant de les acheter. Que ce serait chouette d’être plein de fric et de ne pas avoir à réfléchir comme ça! Si jamais vous avez des idées de génie, dites-le-moi!
For my English-speaking friends:
Trying to make a very important decision. Our departure date is quickly approaching, and I don’t know if we should buy one-way tickets or round-trips (twice the price). If we buy the one-ways (very tempting), we risk not selling the house before leaving et as a result will be really bothered!! Of course, as soon as I buy the round-trips, the house will sell and we will have lost thousands of dollars for nothing. But we have to stay positive, right? I think we’ll wait a few more weeks before buying them. How great it would be to have lots of money and not have to think about things like this! If ever you have a brilliant plan, let me know!
My TOP TEN reasons for wanting to relocate to France:
(maybe I forgot something, or maybe you know better! in any case, let me know what you think!)
Reason # 1
Quality of life
Reason # 2
Work to live, not live to work. Taking time to enjoy life, spending time with family, longer lunches and dinners. Slower pace of living. Sundays are what they used to be in the United States forty years ago.
Reason # 3
Healthier lifestyle, pedestrian friendly cities, beaches, mountains, walks in vineyards.
Reason # 4
High-quality health care system, affordable to all, low cost prescription drugs.
Reason # 5
French gastronomy, locally grown fresh produce markets, bread, cheese, olive oil, Mediterranean diet.
Reason # 6
Easy travel to diverse locations (other European countries); children grow up (with the possibility of) being exposed to more foreign cultures. And no matter where you live in France, Paris is just a quick train ride away.
“If you are lucky enough to have lived in Paris as a young man, then wherever you go for the rest of your life, it stays with you, for Paris is a moveable feast.” -Ernest Hemingway
Reason # 7
Some of the best, and most affordable wine regions in the world. Summer wine festivals in the Languedoc are fabulous.
Reason # 8
Mediterranean climate: The weather may not be so fantastic in every part of France year round, but in the Languedoc, it really is quite pleasant most of the time.
Reason # 9
Manners are still important in France, and the vast majority of children are raised to show respect. This is very important to me.
This is a picture of my son, my niece, and some friends.
Reason # 10
Comparatively low violent crime rate. We are not planning to live in a big city, but even in Paris I feel safe walking alone at night.
Our house still hasn’t sold. 42 days or so on the market and two weeks since we’ve had a showing, but I’m still curiously optimistic. I don’t know how I’ll deal psychologically if this doesn’t work out. Let’s just not think about that 🙂
Here’s what our container will look like.
Doesn’t look that big, but we’ve been assured that everything we have left in our house should fit in there:
Clothes/Shoes for 2 adults & 2 children
Toys, bikes, etc.
We did get rid of a LOT at our moving sale back in February so when moving time does come, NO CLUTTER.
While getting rid of things, we didn’t keep anything electronic that we thought we could do without. That includes mostly all kitchen appliances, one television, some lamps. Now that I think about it, I shouldn’t have gotten rid of so many things. However, at the time we didn’t know we’d have enough space in the container. Oh well, no regrets!
Originally, we’d planned to sell or give away the electrical appliances we still have just before moving. That would include a television, PS3, Wii, DVD player, hair dryer, flat-iron, iron for clothes, a couple of lamps, coffee maker, espresso machine, rice cooker, and a few other little things that we consider important. Now that I think about it and I’ve done a bit of research (and I know we have enough space in the container), I do believe I’ll just go and buy enough $10 electrical adapter/converter devices and hold onto our appliances. That will save us a lot of running around buying things when we get to our apartment in Béziers, and it will be cheaper too.
A word about keeping the television. The only reason we will do this is to play video games and watch DVDs on it. It happens to be a nicer, newer T.V., so maybe we’d like to have the little luxury of having it, even if we won’t watch real television programs or French DVDs. We will need a larger size converter for this. Suggestions?
We’re not going to bring the car, though. I love my VW Beetle, but it’s just not worth what it would cost to ship it over. Plus, I’m pretty sure we’d have to have some changes made to the car once in France just to make it street legal.
What do you think? Any comments? Many of you probably have a lot more experience shipping personal goods overseas, so I’d be thrilled to receive any advice you may have.